Certainty is currency. It sells books and speaking tours, builds fan bases and markets. Confident and convinced voices dominate our media, our professions and workplaces, our world. Uncertainty is often dismissed as a sign of incompetence, weakness even. Come back when you’ve made your mind up.
Not knowing can be uncomfortable. Sometimes profoundly so. Shedding assumptions and preconceived solutions can feel disorienting. If not that, then what?
And we don’t want a lack of definitive answers to become a lack of hope. Not knowing does not mean having nothing. There are paths to try, both well worn and emerging. There are threads to follow, patterns to explore and stepping stones that have held others well.
But there is also a joy in not knowing. A sense of wide, expansive wonder. Like a native forest, uncertainty pulses with life. In contrast, conclusions delivered with the authoritative air of fact can feel like pinning dead butterflies to a display in a museum. Reality is far more magical and mysterious.