If you are in the helping professions, you need support. Hopefully you have good managers and supervision. Ideally these roles are built into the work. Sometimes you need to find them for yourselves. When you get the right fit, external supervision is a worthwhile investment in your skills, professional self-care and career.
There is also value in less formal mentoring. Not your manager. Not your supervisor. People who can give you a refreshingly honest and grounded take on the work from one step back.
It’s hard to find your way when the support offered is mostly aligned with performance targets or organisational objectives. Or with a narrowly defined professional identity that doesn’t seek to question itself. You also need support that makes room for you – who you are, your values, your strengths and how you could make your way within in the bigger picture.
There’s a role for aunties and uncles. Someone who can talk authentically about the reality of the work, it’s limitations and messiness, as well as the opportunities. Someone who can talk straight with you, not via the funding models.
Maybe there’s a dash of healthy cynicism and almost always a generous dose of pragmatism. There’s a willingness to say “I don’t know” and mean it when they say “I believe in you”. Someone who will always bring you back to the fundamental purpose of the work and the people you are trying to support.